Living believing the world owes us something, is to ignore the gift of life we have been given. God gave so we could give. It is only when we lose our self for others -in the way our creator did for us- will we ever find the satisfaction we so deeply long for. But doing this means (with God's help) letting go of everything we think we are owed, letting go of what is fair for us, letting go what is best for our selves and putting the needs of the ones around us before our own. It is then we can begin the journey of finding who our creator has made us to be.